4Ms

At times i am worried about the boys, 4 Ms. I am trying when its possible to provide and prepare themselves for their betterment because i want the best for them. Its just that i can't help feeling worry and sad at times when they are not presented with opportunitiues and "luxury" compared to their peers! When i said "luxury" here, its more of needs than wants! Newer generations are spolit for choices and things are way different now than my time. Although i completely understand the non-significance of having "things", i can't help feeling uneasy when they don't have such "luxury".

Don't get me wrong here. Its not that my sister is not doing enough. There is so much love and care for the kids from her but i just think financially, its not easy for them to raise 4 growing kids. There's need for school stuff, clothes, books and many more to take care off. I know how difficult it was for my parents and as the newer generation is better financially, expectation of better living is also there. Well at least for me.

Someone commented that its not my problem as i'm not their parents. How can that not be my problem? We all have certain responsibility towards other people and off course i do have responsibilty towards them. They are my nephews. I do plan to do more where i can. They are good boys thats for sure.